"Und im Endeffekt haben wir alle nichts zu verlieren, dessen Verlust dann doch nicht irgendwie ertragbar wäre."
"8 things I learned by the age of 18:
1. Everything takes time. Whether it’s getting over someone, making a change or finishing something, it takes time. And that’s okay. We’re always in a hurry and we forget to appreciate or even just accept the process.
2. Other people are not the answer. You may think others can heal you or make you feel better, which they might. However, in the end it’s up to you. Learn how to love yourself instead of waiting for someone else to do it.
3. Grow. Never stop working on yourself, on things you’re passionate about, or on your future. Grow into the person you want to become - even if you’re not sure who that is.
4. The more that you wait, the more time that you waste. Don’t keep telling yourself “you’ll do it tomorrow”. Now is now and who knows what happens tomorrow.
5. Often, people are temporary. Accept it. It hurts, it’s unfair, but sometimes friendships end or people leave. Treasure every moment you have with someone rather than being afraid it could end.
6. Some days will suck and it’s okay. Find peace in the days you’re feeling sad, find peace in being bored. Without having bad days, good days wouldn’t be as good.
7. Don’t let anyone determine who you are. Only you decide which way you’re going, only you decide what you wear and only you decide what you want to be like. Don’t let anyone take that right away from you.
8. Change is inevitable. No matter if it’s positive or negative, change is one of the few things you can always rely on. Don’t fear it, but feel reassured - you won’t live the same life all along."
- t.k. (via liebeficktunsalle)
(Source: timbllr, via infloribus)
"Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. Who understands you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. Fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. Fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love only with a body or with a face; or with the idea of being in love."
- stay-impure (via happy-absturz)
(via happy-absturz)
"You spend your whole life stuck in the labyrinth, thinking about how you’ll escape it one day, and how awesome it will be, and imagining that future keeps you going, but you never do it. You just use the future to escape the present."
- (via immeretwas-anders)
"Eifersucht ist mangelndes Selbstvertrauen. Man traut sich nicht zu gut genug zu sein."
- (via ruinedearth)
(via ruinedearth)
"Erst wenn man etwas beendet hat, wird einem klar, wie schwer es ist neu anzufangen. Also zwingt man sich dazu es nicht mehr zu wollen, aber es ist immer da und verschwindet nicht, solange man nicht damit abschließt."
- (via ruinedearth)
(via ruinedearth)
"So what? You failed your finals. You gained some weight. So what? You’re single again. You lost your job. So what? What now? You live. You try again. That’s what."
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c0ntemplations (via perfect)
this is my favorite post in the universe
(via gwen-fit)